When does it become okay to ‘be selective’?
Painting a picture for this perspective..
Someone close to you, approaches you and asks..
“Why doesn’t nobody like me?”
I’d think about it first then respond, ‘Maybe it’s them, not you.”
Deeper into context with this is because it is JUST that.
Think about it..
Why is it so important to have ‘others’ like you!?
What’s the reasoning, the validation or purpose of it?
From people that you barely know their names, and yet seek that approval?
Laughing to the thought cause it’s pure childish how we self sabotage this idea!
The questions continue.. but mainly WHY..
Truth is, we may never even know why. So I have made a consensus as to what could potentially put it, at ease..
Motivating YOURSELF- !WHY! (Don’t take yourself for granted, Get the F up and do something!)
Observe your surroundings- WHY (Learn with things around you, flow with it and take in mental notes)
Take your time-!WHY!- (Our generation evolves like Saiyan's; from technology, to inflation, war, environmental changes & 'US' realizing how WE make an impact on one another to how we mentally operate on a daily basis. Learn at your pace. We ain’t in a race!!)
To finish this picture, I’d like to share with you that even though you’d think about those you grew up with or those connections you’ve made has made you feel a type of way that it is okay!! We all know as humans, things come and go. So WHY are you taking it for any more of a second thought!?
Focus on the goal. Whatever goal that is. Something present & realistic. Say if you choose to share things you love, do it! If you are feeling yourself, take that picture! If you want to cut people off that are toxic to you, cut em & block em! If you’re feeling stuck on your next move, make a pros n cons list to narrow the options. If you just want to do something for yourself, you deserve too! If you’re scared to be yourself cause you’d rather impress, DON’T. If those around you make you feel like you’re stepping on eggshells in your place of peace, they’re too much for you & you deserve better. Claim your boundaries, set it in stone. OWN THAT! After all, you owe to yourself.
We give so much power to those who have no business having it to begin with!!
We are infinite beings.
Heal yourself.
And what’s meant for you, will effortlessly come to you.
Con cariño,
Alexys
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